对不起如果我太直接。
对不起让你们受委屈了。
对不起让你们受惊了。
曾经有人告诉我，直接是件好事，好过深藏不漏。
可是原来也有它的代价，那就是“我在明，你在暗”。
我觉得我应该表现自己在想什么，大家才可以真正了解对方。如果是收收埋埋，那请你别把好朋友三个字挂在口边。
我有时可能真的用错方式，太过固执坚硬，对不起。
有时甚至什么过分的话都随口喷，也郑重的道歉。
可是对人对事，我都没有假惺惺。
有时因为太公事公办，男朋友也觉得怎么我对待他和朋友没什么差别。
想必我这生人一定得罪了千千万万的人。。。对不起。
可是坏消息是，我不懂怎么改变，也不懂应该改变吗？
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大小姐的style, lolx
ReplyDeleteforgive u ^^
ReplyDeleteone way, cool down your temper, haha.. when you learn to be cool, calm and learn to accept, you won't explode and won't hurt ppl around you. and that itself is not hiding your true self if you learn to accept other ppl's weakness..
ReplyDeleteei....大小姐 now 公开道歉 leh...
ReplyDeletexianloong ah...teach me how to cool down....yeah, many thing against my principle,then i can't accept...very bad
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ReplyDeleteHard leh.. I think no one in this world have the perfect ability to do this..
ReplyDeleteIn my humble opinion, every single person will get offended if your actions do not meet their expectations. That's why people will get angry easily with their own family members and friends rather than a stranger or person that you are not close with.
Everyone have their own dignity/self-respect, and will get offended if you get aggressive/direct with them. This is what you cannot change. The thing that you can do is to lower the expectation towards others. If you insist that your principle is good,then accept the fact that no one in this world is perfect enough to follow your way completely or not everyone must follow your principles. But the thing is that you do not need to throw away your principles.
it's too lower the expectation, or reduce the care u gave? it's different?
ReplyDeleteits lower the expectation towards other ppl, no need to reduce the care you give to other ppl. Its different, you care for others but not expecting others to care you the same way. Easy to say la, but I also don't have the ability to do this.. haha..
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